Hello! I hope you are having a great day :)
So something really strange happened to me earlier. On my way back from the post office (exciting life I lead), I was stopped by a guy.
'Hey, I just saw you walking down the street. I am looking for a wife and you have potential. What's your name?'
I was so shocked and immediately embarrassed that I didn't say anything and desperately tried to find a way to escape without being too rude.
'Oh okay. Erm I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend.' (I really hoped he would leave me alone if I said that, and I mean - you would think that he would?!)
'That's okay! I can pretend to be your gay best friend.'
It was at this point that I started to feel very uncomfortable. 'No.'
'How old are you? And how old do you think I am?'
'Ehh I don't know. Sorry I have to go now.'
And then I left. He started yelling 'Stop! Wait!' but I didn't turn around and just continued walking.
Thing is that I have absolutely no idea how to react in these kind of situations. If a guy came up to me and said 'hello' and wanted to start a conversation in a friendly, non-intense kind of way, I really wouldn't mind. I would feel very flattered. But this was just a bit too intense from the start - Why would you approach a girl saying that you are looking for a wife? Isn't that a step too far?
Also, how strange for anyone to just assume that a girl would like being told that she has 'potential' to become his wife??
I honestly felt like I had entered some kind of casting. No thanks.
Is there a 'right' way to react instead of being all confused and embarrassed like me? It was such an awkward and surreal experience and I still don't know how I should feel about it.
Let me know what you think. xx
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